L+O+V+E= a mixture of feels! :)

hye assalamuaaikum. okay my name is Nor Alia Balqis Rudaini, kadang kadang org panggil qis ade yang pggil lia. so to make it simple. lia+qis=Lis. okay hari nie lis nak cakap on how love may hurt u.

LOVE

kadang kadang kita selalu dengar yang LOVE nie FULL OF SURPRISES and EMOTIONS. yes it is true! okay now i'm gonna show u some situation on how LOVE can be such a surprise with such an emotions :

situation 1:

"he loves you but u dont love him. he's upset and move on. and suddenly years after that u realize that u actually love him? so how?"
okay to cope with this kind of situation, kita kena analyze dulu mcm mana keadaan dia sekarang. EH OF COZ LA!! sebab he's not going to wait forever. besides he has moved on rite. so kita kena determine dulu whether he's still waiting for us or not. okay if he's still waiting so what u looking for??! DO NOT PLAY DUMB! jgn nak mengada masa tu nak fikir 20,60 kali. hey dear GOOD MAN is NOT THAT MUCH NOWADAYS! but (okay there is a but) kalau dia DAH ADA ORANG LAIN, it is you that need to move on okay. yelaa u kena ingat u're the one that crushed him, and when he has found someone to heal him jgn la nak suke2 comeback. jgn igt dia ANAK PATUNG!. DO NOT INTERRUPT their relationship. dear, u should be happy for him. pujuk hati tu.. cakap "sume nie Allah dah tentukan. there must be someone better for you :)

situation 2:

"u have an ex boyfriend that have cheated on u like thousands time, but your little heart still forgives him, are u being stupid or not?" 
okay, for this situation it depends, sometimes YES YOU ARE BEING SERIOUSLY STUPID but sometimes.... AWWWWW~ YOU'RE SUCH A CHANCE GIVER!  kadang2 kita tak tau situation die macam mana.. kita can't simply accuse die buat bende2 y dia ta buat tau! okay let say la he lied about things y macam "no one admire me at school so dont worry my dear"(if u guys studying at different school) and suddenly u baca wall facebook or inbox about a confessions of a girl that is "LIKING" him... u jgn lah mengamuk syg~ he's rying to make u feel secure! dia ta nak u guys rasa terancam that's all... so jgn la dok maki hamun dia "penipu la, buaya tembaga la, mcm2 lagi" OKAY! BUT!(okay lagi satu but -.-) kalau dah ade confession mcm tu and die buleyh dok reply with such a berbune bunge punye ayat... haaaiii lelaki macam tu better u humban je dalam gaung! he's not worth it okay! don't cry for such a loser like that. u're wasting your tears!

situation 3:

"u do like someone, but u dont know how to express your love. and the most important thing is, u're afraid that he/she wil reject u!"
for this kind of situation Lis cuma nak pesan satu, BE YOURSELF! jgn nak jadi orang lain just nak buat die suka kat kamu! "i'm not going to make myself as pretty as her but i'm going to turn myself as pretty as ME" okay fikir la secara logik akal nye.. kamu nak ke someone that u love so bad, love/like u for someone that u're pretending to be? for how long u can be such a copy cat? buat apa kita kejar someone that wanted us to be someone else. my dear.. LOVE IS ABOUT ACCEPTANCE, AND IF U HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF TO BE ACCEPTED THEN IT IS NOT AN ACCEPTANCE IT IS COMPROMISE, SO IT WOULD NOT BE LOVE. it he/she doesn't accept u for who u are please let him/her go.. u'll find someone better. believe me! :D

okay so enough with the situation. Lis bukan lah orang yang sangat perfect untuk berikan semua pandangan nie. but Lis cakap berdasarkan apa yang Lis pernah lalui or Lis pernah tengok org laen lalui. so just BELiEVE   IN LOVE... Allah tu Maha Adil...kalau kamuu pernah terluka itu maknanya Allah nak kamuu belajar dpd kesilapan dulu and build a new life and better relationship okay.. selalu pujuk hati.. :D okay its all for now. mintak maaf kalau ade y trslh tulis. post nie tak de kena mngena dgn sapa2 pun kay :)

assalamualaikum :D

alia balqis rudaini@lis